Honour Your Head

In your walk with God, God has established an order in marriage relationships.  God, your Abba Father is the Head of the husband, and the head of the wife is the husband. 

I challenge wives (me too) and every expectant wife to honor your head by being submissive, loving and respectful in all circumstances, and in every situation, that your head will be able to speak of you, as this husband did in Proverbs 31:10-12 NKJ.  "Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. (11)"The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil." (12)"She will do him good and no evil all the days of her life."

 As you daily seek the face of God your Abba Father it is my prayer that He  Will impart His strength and grace to you and furnish you with His Love to make it a lifestyle to not only nurture your natural hair, but also your head?  Yes, the husband that you promised God that you would love, honor and keep.  

Do not break the Covenant of your Marriage!  Honor your head, and everything else will line up in your life.

Pause and Calmly think about this Nugget.

......Much Love!

Where Did Love Go?

Many times what you may have en-visioned your marriage relationship to be have now discovered to be far from what you expected but the time has come for every married couple to re-visit the Blue print for marriages, the Word of God; it is there you (me too) will discover that  you have deviated from the Master Plan for your marriage!

May this Article encourage but also challenge you where ever you are in your marriage relationship and to you who maybe contemplating marriage, may it encourage you to Follow the Plan of God for your marriage! Much Love!

Honey, I'm home! How was your day? I'm so glad you
are home! A warm embrace - a tender moment. Yes these
are a few impressions, but where did love go? Now days
it's like, "He reach!" You may be thinking, "Lord help me
to go home to this nagging woman!" Or it may be like a
grunt or hardly a word spoken. No hugs, no smiles. Where
did love go? The honeymoon seems to be over, now there
is, "no honey in the moon" so to speak, and you may not
know the last time you saw the moon! Where did love go?

Do you remember the day you accepted Jesus Christ as your
personal Saviour? You were all excited and filled with zeal for
the Lord. Just as you were on your wedding day, but where did
love go? Your passion for Jesus Christ has diminished. You
hardly ever pick up the Word to study and meditate on the
scriptures anymore. You don't pray like you used to pray either!
When was the last time you took to the streets to share the
good news of Salvation? When was the last time you visited the
hospital to share the Word and pray for the sick? What about
those in prison? Have you ever visited the prison to share His
love with those who are there? Where did Love go? You are at
your wits end and maybe feeling all alone then the WORDS of
Jesus is speaking from within from the book of Matthew 11:28-30 NKJV
(28) "Come unto Me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden,
and I will give you rest. (29)  Take My yoke upon you, and learn of
me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto
your souls. (30) For My yoke is easy and My burden is light." Where
did Love go? At this very moment the WORD, which is Spirit and
Life, immediately begins cutting and healing .in complete sub-
mission - love begins to flow like a river from within! The pen was
inspired to write!

Love so tender and so sweet. Oh where did Love
go? Love did flow like a river with the sounds of the rippling water
among the lilies, hearing the chirping birds singing making melody
in the trees but where are you my love? It is as if you have gone
on a long journey! Yet I will not give up on Love so tender and so
sweet but oh how much does it cost? Then I keep hearing the
resounding answer loud and clear it cost Jesus His life on the
cruel Cross of Calvary! So my love I know that only with His love
we will triumph and soar above the storms. I pray that soon you
will return to Love so tender and so sweet for Love is awaiting
your return!

Yes Abba Father is awaiting your return to His abundant flowing
love which loves you unconditionally!

FOREWORD

What a blessing and an honour to have had my husband of thirty years of marriage to write the Forward on the Book Restoring The Torn up Bed! Be Blessed and encouraged as you read!

FOREWORD

This thought provoking work addresses the simple but important things in a marriage that can determine success or failure.
It establishes a foundation of love, when it is absent, will lead to some of the challenges faced by marriages today.
This is continued by exposing you to the good side of and explore all the benefits to be had, if you make your marriage a priority.
Some has searched for that one thing that guarantees success in one of life’s most precious estate - rather than God’s sacred instruction.
It also speaks to the sometimes tumultuous, that is sometimes marriage, and after what has become a roller-coaster ride for many, one settles down and counts regrets.
Reading this book would help you to forgive and forget.
You too would come to the conclusion that when marriages works the way God has ordained it, it is a force to be reckoned with. Bringing forth fruit of love, joy, peace and long suffering; some 20 years, 30 years, 50 years, 100 years.
I recommend this as an atlas, which will help you to move around and to navigate through your marriage, choosing when to go where thus ensuring that the weather would always be great.

WHO ARE YOU MARRIED TO?

May this Article challenge and encourage you where ever you are on your journey in your marriage relationship.  Blessings!

Marriages are experiencing so many severe attacks so much so husbands and wives are asking themselves this question, “Who am I married to?”  Well, who are you married to?  While you are pondering the answer think about your very first meeting it may have been as if heaven kissed the earth or time stood still!

Still pondering?  That is good now listen carefully, there are some doors you may have unknowingly left open and the enemy is using these open doors to reap havoc in your marriage relationship.

In some cases both husbands and wives have left the door open to former girlfriends and boyfriends.  Still others have refused to put family members in order while others allow themselves to be evilly dominated by each other just to name a few.  Now a days you could be wondering if you are married to a demon instead of the beautiful caring spouse you married!

The thing is though it is not who you are married to.  Do you not know, you could have possibly allowed the enemy to come into your marriage undetected?  The Word is speaking from the book of Genesis 2:15-17 (15)”Then the LORD God took the man and put him the Garden of Eden to tend and keep it.”  (16)”And the LORD God commanded the man, saying, “Of every tree of the garden you may freely eat;” (17)”but of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of it you shall surely die.”

Take an even closer look at this passage of scripture God had given Adam a direct command to take care of the garden and surely Adam did convey this to his wife Eve.  Together they were perfect and lived in harmony with each other but an intruder visited them one day and their relationship was never the same.  Read of how the intruder infiltrated himself and used the serpent to carry out his plot to not only destroy the tranquility of the first couple but to have their God given authority taken away from them.  Genesis 3:1 “Now the serpent was more cunning than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made.  And He said to the woman, “Has God indeed said, ‘You shall not eat of every tree of the garden?”  (2)”And the woman said to the serpent, “We may eat the fruit of the tree of the garden;”  (3)”but of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the garden, God has said, ‘You shall not eat it, nor shall you touch it.”  Now read how the intruder mixed lies with truth, (4)”then the serpent said to the woman, “You will not surely die.” He continues with his lies, (5)”For God knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”  Eve did the unthinkable and Adam did not even protest or take a stand to carry out the command that God had given to him.  (6)”So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree desirable to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate.  She also gave to her husband with her, and he ate.”  Thus today the question is ringing like a telephone, ‘Who are you married to?

I just stopped by to tell you there is hope!  Run to the refuge of Abba Father, get on your knees and repent, (me too) seek His face read His Word and pray for each other!  Roman 12:1 is speaking “I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that you present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your reasonable service.”  (2)”And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.”  Begin this day to really put your trust in God!  Forgive yourself, now forgive each other!

May Yahweh give to you His wisdom and courage to stand up and deal with the real issues that threaten to destroy your marriage relationship!

Listen, Adam was given total power and authority over every animal yet he allowed the serpent to deceive Eve and not only that Adam also allowed the serpent to talk to Eve about what God had already commanded him to do and sadly both Adam and Eve believed the lie lets read it together, (5)’For god knows that in the day you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil.”  Their beautiful marriage was never ever the same!  They were evicted from the paradise of the Garden of Eden to a life filled with torment and pain.  Who are you married to?

Could it be that you have compromised in your marriage and like Adam, you have been passive and allowed your wife like Eve to deal with the enemy?  Have you bought into the lies of the enemy?

Believing the lies of the enemy is actually what will give Satan ground to come into your marriage relationship and cause you to view each other as Satan himself personified!

Red Alert!  “Who are you married to?”  If you are asking yourself this question, Satan has already gained ground in your marriage! The Word is speaking Isaiah 54:17 “No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue which rises against you in judgment You shall condemn.  This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is from Me says the LORD.”

Repent this day as husbands and wives and begin to cut away and sever every evil soul tie, ask Abba Father to reveal to you which doors have been left open and through the power of the shed blood of Jesus Christ close those doors forever to the enemy!  It is echoing, forgive each other and make it a priority to show appreciation for one another!  Stop complaining about each other and start dealing with every issue as they arise and whatever you do, do not go to bed angry with each other!  Seek to settle your differences and respect each other.

Pray together, study the Word together, stop the silent treatment and talk to each other, resume social activities and you will rediscover each other and reignite the passion and love you once knew

Who are you married to?  The world will see that you are married to Jesus Christ!  For His light will be shining so brightly in your marriage people of every nation will be drawn to the Light!  Come on give Abba Father thanks and praise for who you are married to!